This is a fix for: 

erigontech#10192

This fixes is a deadlock in v4_udp.go where 
* Thread A waits on mutex.Lock() in resetTimeout() called after reading
listUpdate channel.
* Thread B waits on listUpdate <- plist.PushBack(p) called after locking
mutex.Lock()
  
This fix decouples the list operations which need locking from the
channel operations which don't by storing the changes in local
variables. These updates are used for resetting a timeout - which is not
order dependent.

…rigontech#10739)

cherry-pick erigontech#10693 to release

Cherry pick PR erigontech#10636 to
Erigon 2

…same files) (erigontech#10761)

)

for erigontech#10644

…ion workflows (erigontech#10778)

This PR backports improvements that we added to the E3 tests: recording
runner name and db version used for testing on MongoDB database.

Merged all the work done from main branch to keep diagnostics up to
date.

Cherry pick erigontech#10792

Cherry pick PR erigontech#10093 into the release branch

Co-authored-by: Minhyuk Kim <kimminhyuk1004@gmail.com>

Cherry pick PR erigontech#10825 into the release branch

Co-authored-by: Minhyuk Kim <kimminhyuk1004@gmail.com>

…" (erigontech#10904)

This reverts PR erigontech#10499. See
erigontech#10495 (comment)
and PR erigontech#10901